Diamond in the trash

<p> When things aren’t going well, you’re in a bad state of mind. If you ask yourself a healthy question, like “What’s great about this?”, your answer will probably be “Nothing! This is just bad!” </p><p> Don’t be so sure. Push past that first thought. <strong> Keep asking. </strong> You can always find something useful. </p><p> Use what you learned about brainstorming. Don’t stop at the second or third answer. Come up with crazy ideas. </p><p> Use what you learned from jigsaw puzzles. Start with the edges. Come up with extreme and ridiculous ideas that you’d never actually do, but are good for inspiration and finding the middle. </p><p> We resist good ideas that require us to change. You think you’re not that kind of person? Not yet, but you can be. Keep all ideas around. </p><p> You <em>seem</em> to be locked in a jail cell. But if you <em>know</em> there’s actually a secret exit, you’ll look harder, pushing and pulling everything until you find it. </p><p> You <em>seem</em> to be holding a bag of trash. But if you <em>know</em> there’s actually a diamond inside, you’ll sift through the junk until you find it. </p><p> Your mind has a lot of trash, and often tells you there’s no way out of your situation — there’s nothing great about this. But if you <em>decide</em> that there is, you’ll keep looking until you find it. </p>